On letting go and ending a relationship. How to say goodbye.

    Without love, trust and time, relationship becomes unhappy and might not understand each other. Letting go of a relationship doesn't always mean that it is the end because somehow, it signifies that a better chapter of your life is about to start.

    Don't expect to have a perfect relationship because there's no perfect in this world. Letting go of a relationship might happen unexpectedly and because of the issues came from: family matters; their religion; third party; being unhappy; lacking of time for each other. All of the problems have its solution but if you felt that love isn't right for you and affects you badly, therefore, letting go of a relationship is the best thing to do. Don't let anyone tell you how you are meant to feel or what you should do about these feelings after a relationship has ended. No one knows how you feel, it's simply because they are not you.

    If you felt that letting go of a relationship is the only way to survive your friendship, than listen to yourself. Lovers start being friends and must end up being friends. When you have decided of letting go of a relationship that both of you treasured along the way, it's natural to feel all the regrets and missed the person you used to be with and the things both of you used to do. Sometimes, somehow, you only love that person because it is the feeling you injected to your system, you may not notice that you slowly fell out of love in a silent way.

    Letting go of a relationship that never works is not your failure. To get out of one relationship bravely is a pleasure. Don't try to fight the failure, you cannot rewrite the reality. Do whatever it takes to give yourself resolution and closure, and do so without hoping that you are going to get back together. Realize that new promises and right words do not change the facts. Remember all the reasons the relationship failed and accept the fact that those differences will eventually reappear. Accept that the relationship didn't work in the end, and nothing will make it work any better in the future. Wounds are only healed by treating infection and being more careful in the future, not by kissing it and making it feel better for a moment. The longer the inevitable is postponed, the harder it is to heal. The decision of applying a temporary patch versus eliminating it is totally in your own hands.

    Let love dies, don't die with it. Everything may for happen for a reason. And every memory left its lesson in a way that you will always remember. Nothing lasts forever but memory stays as long as you are living. Though letting go of relationship is the saddest part of your life, you can't erase it permanently, what important is, you learn from it… you learned from your own mistakes. Don't let your one feet to be stacked in the past. Forgive then forget, step forward not backward, move on.

    要了結(jié)一段愛(ài)的關(guān)系，該如何說(shuō)再見(jiàn)

    沒(méi)有愛(ài),信任和陪伴,兩人的關(guān)系開始變得不愉快且雙方無(wú)法相互體量。放棄一段關(guān)系并不注定要結(jié)束一段關(guān)系,因?yàn)閺哪撤N意義講,這意味著人生更好的一個(gè)章節(jié)就要開始了。

    不要期待擁有完美的關(guān)系,因?yàn)檫@世上根本不會(huì)存在完美的關(guān)系�？赡軙�(huì)突然間放棄一段關(guān)系且因?yàn)閱?wèn)題來(lái)自:家庭瑣事,宗教信仰,第三者的介入,心情不佳,缺乏陪伴的時(shí)間。所有的問(wèn)題都會(huì)有它的解決辦法,但是如果你覺(jué)得這種愛(ài)不適合你且對(duì)你產(chǎn)生了不利的影響,那么放棄這段關(guān)系是最好的解決辦法。當(dāng)一段關(guān)系結(jié)束以后,不要讓旁人告訴你,你內(nèi)心的感受會(huì)是怎樣,該做些什么來(lái)對(duì)付這些感受。因?yàn)闆](méi)有人會(huì)知道你內(nèi)心的感受,理由再簡(jiǎn)單不過(guò)了,你是你,別人是別人。

    如果你覺(jué)得放棄一段關(guān)系是保持兩人友誼的唯一辦法,就該聽自已的。愛(ài)人關(guān)系是從朋友關(guān)系開始的,也要以朋友關(guān)系來(lái)結(jié)束。當(dāng)你決定要放棄一段兩人一路走來(lái)百般珍惜的關(guān)系,感到遺憾萬(wàn)分并無(wú)比懷念過(guò)去與你相伴左右的這個(gè)人和兩人過(guò)去共同經(jīng)歷的事,這是很自然不過(guò)的事。有時(shí),你會(huì)無(wú)原由地只愛(ài)那個(gè)人,因?yàn)檫@只是你向神經(jīng)系統(tǒng)灌輸?shù)囊环N感受,你可能還沒(méi)察覺(jué)到自己已經(jīng)在無(wú)聲無(wú)息中從愛(ài)中走出來(lái)了。

    放棄一段不再有愛(ài)的關(guān)系并不是你的錯(cuò)。勇敢地走出一段關(guān)系才是幸福。不要嘗試與失敗作戰(zhàn),你無(wú)法重寫現(xiàn)實(shí)。做一些可以讓你解決問(wèn)題和消除窘?jīng)r事情,不要心懷期許兩人又會(huì)在一起。要知道新的承諾和甜言蜜語(yǔ)并不能改變事實(shí)。心中要記住為什么這段關(guān)系會(huì)破裂,并接受所有的分歧在兩人復(fù)合之時(shí)又會(huì)重新浮現(xiàn)的這個(gè)事實(shí)。承認(rèn)兩人關(guān)系最終無(wú)法重修舊好,且未來(lái)也不會(huì)有令其更好的辦法。交靠親吻和一時(shí)半會(huì)的安撫,而不進(jìn)行消炎及在后期更加小心地處理,傷口是不會(huì)痊愈的。注定的傷痛越遲發(fā)生,越難痊愈。一時(shí)半會(huì)的修修補(bǔ)補(bǔ),還是一次性徹底地將它解決掉,完全取決于你自己。

    讓愛(ài)逝去,但不要與之相隨。任何事情都不會(huì)無(wú)緣由地發(fā)生。每一個(gè)記憶都會(huì)以你永遠(yuǎn)都不會(huì)忘卻的方式給你留下一課。沒(méi)有什么可以與世長(zhǎng)存,然而記憶卻會(huì)永生相伴。盡管放棄一段關(guān)系是人生這中最痛的一部分,你無(wú)法將它從記憶中抹去。但重要的是,你從中有所收獲,你能痛定思痛。不要讓自已深陷在過(guò)去的記憶中,不要后退,要向前邁步,一直往前走。